Monday, February 1, 2010

PSA FOR MY LADIES! *Fellas feel free to give your opinion as well. :-)*

This blog post is going to be SHORT, sweet, HONEST, & STRAIGHT to the point!

LADIES: If you have a GOOD man, GREAT man, WONDERFUL man or anything of that sort....that pays ALL the bills w/o question & just all around takes care of home, do NOT get mad @ him for wanting a little FREE time!

*This includes time w/his boys, brother(s), colleagues & etc.
**There is simply NOOOOO need for that! That man takes care of you (maybe a child y'all have or children) & makes sure that you don't have a care in the WORLD...he deserves @ LEAST that much! And ESPECIALLY if he can do all the above PLUS take care of you sexually...you need your ass whooped if you can't let him have a lil time with the fellas! (Oh and this also includes him wanting to play video games sometimes, watching the football/basketball game or something like that too. Hell, find something that interests you that you can do during that time OR find something fun in what he enjoys & do it with him!!!)
***Having a fit because your man doesn't give you much time during "game night" is straight BULLSHIT...you want MORE time, get into the game & LOVE IT...seriously?!!! What better way to kill two birds with one stone & make both parties happy?!

That is all. :-D

~♥QUEEN♥~

Poem...

I know it has been a while.....been thru it & back again!

And of course all of this comes from within, one way or another...whether from me personally or someone I know & I can relate & decided to write something on the subject. Anywho....this poem is a bit complicated yet simple at the same time & I'm sure someone will be able to relate.


"What Are We Doing?!"

I don't want to let you go...yet you're drifting,
I know I'm a bitch at times...you know the "constant bickering,"
I mean, I'm a trooper...never been one to just up & quit...but I wouldnt be myself if I continued to just sit back & take this shit,
We went from making time for one another on the regular regardless of busy schedules & the distance,
And now I'm pissed & ready to blow shit up because now I feel like I did what I shouldn't have & still doin shit I normally wouldn't have,
I'm here & you're there...I wanna say fuck it because it seems like this course has been ran & you turned out to be like any other "man,"
But then again...in life there are no mistakes,
Just lessons to be learned & different experiences in life that we need to take,
So maybe I should just be appreciative of the encounter in itself if nothing more,
Take shit for what it is....I'm sure better days are indeed instore,
So if this is goodbye, thanx for the times spent & all that came with it,
But if this is just a bumpy road that we need to cross,
None of your hard work & effort would be in vain,
In fact you'll be well compensated if you can stand the rain,
Regardless of what side you land on after the coin toss....in the end there will never be any love lost!

~♥QUEEN♥