I felt as if that was a GREAT question to ask. My take on it is simple. (Please excuse my social media grammar.) “It’s their life so I could give a rat’s ass in actuality. BUT as public figures, they’ve those guys names through the mud then want to reconcile. They got all these women looking up to them & backing them up. Pure bullshit!!! That’s like when ya parents told u “do as I say not as I do” as a kid.” Of course the debate begins and I continue on with my say on it all.
Another friend of my Instagram buddy mentioned something about it being their life as well and they’re human. She compared them, basically, to your typical black couple that isn’t famous. She called the man and woman Tasha and Tyrone stating that Tasha usually takes Tyrone back after the domestic dispute.
I agreed with her. “True!!! Lol @ (her username) but I’m sure Tasha dropped all charges on Tyrone too…IF she ever filed in the first place!!! That’s the only thing that got to me. I got brothers & I’d be pissed if a chick ruined his life (either of my brothers) then wanna be hugs & kisses after he’s stripped of his means of making income. Shit is for publicity! Both chicks became more popular AFTER the fact.”
I continued on with my final statement. “Ppl will love who they love & the way they love, period. I’m all for that…if u like it, I love it!!! But that’s not love if u can play a part in ending a career or putting it at a standstill for a while. It’s vindictive, selfish, & spiteful. Both guys slow as fuck to take them back! But love is…what love is. I just don’t think its love. Comfortability or good sex perhaps, but not love.”
This is just how I feel about these situations and any other domestic violence situation. I love me some Rihanna and I’m fond of Evelyn as well. Of course I’m a Chris Brown fan and Chad Johnson such a character & he has a great heart in my opinion. Granted, I don’t know EITHER of them on personal level. This is just from the good deeds Chad has done, my love for the great music that Chris and Rihanna gives the world, and the entertainment Evelyn gives her viewers.
I’ve never been in a domestic violence situation with a spouse but I’ve seen this time and time again my entire life. I have female family members close to me that have dealt with domestic disputes and I can say first hand, from being there in front of it often, it isn’t a pretty sight. These types of situations can become very ugly and brutal, deadly even. They are celebrities but yes they are human and we all make mistakes, that’s a given. It just bugs me that celebs often get upset when people are “in their personal business” yet they put it up there for public display. People are going to be nosy and give their opinion of you and your relationship if you’re broadcasting it worldwide. Now, if they were together and didn’t televise the shit, per say, then I can understand the frustration.
The bottom line is, Rihanna and Evelyn should be smacked for joining those outreach groups and foundations and then turning around and going back. Had they been “regular chicks” I would still feel the same way. I feel like you should lead by example. Examples: Don’t protest “No Hate" and then you are gay bashing! Don’t become a PETA advocate and at the next award show we see you rocking a mink. The shit is flat out, DISRESPECTFUL!!! There are women that are losing their lives to domestic partners EVERYDAY!!!! (I'm sure some men too!) Some women want to get out and feel as if they can’t and need an outreach program or foundation to help them get away or fund it because they’re financially dependent on that partner. This just sets a bad example, that’s all I’m saying. Had Rihanna or Evelyn only told family and it stayed in the family and the world didn’t know, it wouldn’t be as bad. But regardless, there is someone that’s in a similar situation that could feel completely helpless now or think that’s the way to go.
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