Is it ever ok to publically humiliate your ex-mate; whether it be in person or over the internet?! Especially if the two of you have been together over a year.
I do understand that things tend to go wrong at one point of another which ends in breaking up. But is there a way to call things off with someone you care for deeply or CLAIM to be in love with...WITHOUT hurting him or her even more?!
I'm the type of person that prefer to be told the truth about things as soon as possible because prolonging it is what makes things worse; it's more painful. If you're in love, breaking up is hard to do regardless of the circumstances involved. But face to face is always the way to go unless the relationship is volatile.
A more "upfront" & honest breakup would be considered as a "good" one to me. Females are GOOD at messy breakups like those mentioned above like internet based and/or via phone or text messaging. Hell, guys are known for these forms of breaking up too, nowadays. I just would like to hear the opinion of others.
I'm also wondering about how men & women should go about telling their family & friends that it's over.
I personally believe it's no ones business yet if you are close to your fam/friends; they're aware of the relationship.
This can be another way to make shit worse; even after you've called it quits. Getting TOO many people involved in the ordeal.
Any thoughts?! Feel free to expound as much as you like! :-)
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